What Exactly Do Women Want?

12 Mar

It has been a while I actually posted something that I wrote and thanks a lot to @DJ_Fleau for her post last week. It was a real lifesaver. How was your weekend? I guess it was just as fast as mine. I really wish weekend starts from wednesday. (Yes, I am lazy).

What exactly do women want? I have asked myself this question numerous times and I have tried hard to figure it out. Truth be told, it might vary from woman to woman but really, we guys do not actually have a clue as to what women want. Even some of these women do not actually know what they want. Most women you meet tell you their ideal man should be tall,dark,handsome,rich and blah, blah,blah. At the end of the day they meet the man and at the end of the day something is still missing. They still have something to complain about.

A girl and a boy meet and like each other and naturally she expects the guy to make the first move. If he moves too fast, he is desperate, if he takes his time, he is slow and has bad timing. What do women want?

Let us assume he gets the timing right by a stroke of luck, if he compliments her (genuine or otherwise) he just wants to sleep with her. If he does not throw the compliment around, he is not romantic and he is not open. What do women want?

She goes on a date with him, if he tries to be nice and opens doors and holds the chair out for her during the date, he is trying to hard and it is not in our culture. If he does not open doors or hold out the chair for her, he is not a gentleman. What do women want?

After the date, they probably are close and the feelings are stronger, if he does not reply her chat on time, he is busy with someone else and does not have her time. If he replies her immediately he is jobless. What do women want?
If he replies her with ‘K’ she is boring to him. If he types an epistle he talks too much. What do women want?

Finally they start dating, and things are all rosy. If he asks what her day is going to be like, he does not trust her and he is allover her. If he does not ask after her plans for the day, he does not care about her. What do women want?

If she gets into a fight with her best friend, and you decide to stay out of it, you are not supportive of her. If you decide to weigh in on it and say your mind, you are insensitive. What do women want?

If she asks you if she has added weight, and you say no, you are lying to her. If you say yes, she gets angry at you and starts feeling insecure and haunts you with what you said. She shows you girls who are skinny and asks that is what you want right? What do women want?

If you decide to hangout with your guys one weekend in the month instead of with her, she feels spited and says your friends are more important than she is. She makes you feel guilty, but when you want her to spend a weekend with you instead of with her friends, you are too possessive. What do women want?

If you decide to watch football instead of go shopping with her, football is your priority. She says things like how much are you going to get for watching it. If she decides to watch Kardashians and you say same, you are selfish. What do women want?

The list is endless. It takes a lot to actually understand women. A wise man once told me , if you want to be happy with your woman, just take her as she is. They are emotional and at times will do things that just makes you wonder if they are babies. Never try to change your woman.


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17 responses to “What Exactly Do Women Want?

  1. TOPE

    April 20, 2012 at 11:02 am


  2. @jmoks

    March 14, 2012 at 6:31 am

    I remember the year they asked dis question in JAMB. Everybody failed it, including all d babes o! Nice one bro!

  3. pefdow

    March 12, 2012 at 10:24 pm

    Generally true…understanding and patience is key…and sometimes being a fool is your best bet.

  4. nneka rita

    March 12, 2012 at 7:34 pm

    Wat do men really want too,Baffles me @times also.d human wants are insatiable….understanding and compromises makes d r/ship work.simple.nice one tho,kip up d writeups…

  5. Agbero

    March 12, 2012 at 2:55 pm

    True all through. Awon obinrin ti ya weyrey. (women dey crase). …and I mean this in an ‘uninsulting’ way. πŸ™‚

  6. ToeJew

    March 12, 2012 at 2:42 pm

    Yo dis is so true….(Y)

  7. kikii

    March 12, 2012 at 2:37 pm

    Obviously our list of wants are endless,but the thing most guys fail to seek is what actually women need….you don’t need to get her all the good things in life,sincerely she will never be satisfied because even as humans our wants are insatiable,find out what she needs as for ♍ƺ,attention,love,care,friendship is more important than a million dollars.

  8. doll

    March 12, 2012 at 2:35 pm

    Looool nice!

  9. lite

    March 12, 2012 at 2:23 pm

    Well said. I have experienced these issues one too many times and I am still clueless as to what is going on in that warped mind of theirs.

  10. @theslickguy

    March 12, 2012 at 2:21 pm

    This really is epic yo! Hardeyi, keep up the good work.

    From: @TheSlickGuy

  11. @ezrelaja

    March 12, 2012 at 2:11 pm

    True that….. If u wanna “do” her, she’ll say u jst want her 4 her body, bt if u dnt touch her, she’ll tell her friendz dat u r a dulling nicca….

  12. AnaghaSays

    March 12, 2012 at 2:04 pm

    LMAOOOOO!!!! Nice one bro. Funny and truthful @ d same time. Keep it up!

  13. Nameless

    March 12, 2012 at 2:00 pm

    Hilarious…such a delight to read…

  14. teekellz

    March 12, 2012 at 1:58 pm

    Nice, but you can never (emphasis on Never) understand women.

  15. Dr_bamz

    March 12, 2012 at 1:57 pm

    Now that I’m 1st .. *pops collar* this is Very true.. And that wise man is indeed wise, else one would get frustrated with women! Sigh*

  16. Dr_bamz

    March 12, 2012 at 1:51 pm

    1st!!!!!!!!! ┐(‘⌣’┐) (β”Œ’⌣’)β”Œ Ζͺ(˘⌣˘)β”β”Œ(˘.˘)Κƒ

  17. Foluke

    March 12, 2012 at 1:51 pm

    Lolz, couldn’t help laffing all thru. Ξ° just might be a bit right*winks*


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